What Do You Think This Is?

  

I don’t want to seem like a random man bashing woman.  That is not the reason why I write these thoughts down.  I get at women as well because in A LOT of relationship situations, it is not always the man’s fault.  However, sometimes it is, and although this does not apply to EVERY man, I am sure it applies to at least one that you know.

It is a shame that the upcoming generation of men feel like they don’t have to take responsibility for any of their actions.  Be it cheating, lying, having a kid and denying it or not taking care of them; these have all become socially acceptable behaviors.  IDK WTF you think this is, but that is NOT acceptable behavior.  If you don’t want a child with the woman you are sleeping with, and you are man enough and adult enough to make the decision to put ur penis inside her and move around vigorously until YOU are finished (cause usually the men I am about to speak of are not even remotely concerned with HER being finished) you need to be man enough and adult enough to make a decision to put on a condom beforehand.  It is VERY simple.  She won’t be offended, she will appreciate that you know you are too much of an asshole to parent someone else and don’t want to put her in a bad situation.  Taking care of children is a full time, brakeless, vacation-less, PTO-less job that immediately EMPTIES ur pockets from the day you start – do you know how much it actually costs to have a baby? – Despite what you may have been taught, you may get the milk without buying the cow, but the calf needs to be fed, and that is YOUR responsibility too.  Now, for those of you that have hood rat and trailer trash baby mothers (S/N…why are white women trailer trash and black women hood rats?? Do people think there are no white people in the hood??...Im just sayin) THAT IS YOUR FAULT.  Do not disrespect the mother of your child in front of other people just because she is a hood booger.  She was a hood booger when you were running up in her with NO CONDOM. What did you think was going to happen?  So now she has a baby and because she has 6 colors in her weave you feel like you aren’t supposed to do your part as a father.  Wrong answer.

So let’s address support.  Food, clothing and shelter are the things that most child support is to be used for.  In some instances it is for the extracurricular activities of your child depending on their age.  If you don’t pay, how do you think that child gets taken care of?? That’s right…very good!...their MOTHER does it.  So with that being said, when you are finally forced to pay something to the mother of your child to help with whatever she needs to pay, if she takes $20 of your $100, which is the only money you have sent in 5 years, and gets her nails done, you mind your FUCKING BUSINESS! If she had waited on that $20 from you to feed your child, they would both be dead. Take care of your responsibilities, or don’t create them.  There are some women that don’t bother with support.  All they ask for is assistance when they need it.  Pick up the kids, drop the kids off, split gymnastics fees, pay for karate gear, help pay for summer camp.  These are the ones that would rather do it alone than beg a grown man to do what he’s supposed to do.  Yet and still you insist that she looks for and seeks out the most expensive activities she can find, just to piss you off.  Are you kidding me?

If you don’t want to spend the next 25 years of your life being responsible for someone other than yourself, you should invest in Trojan or Lifestyle.  Be very careful who you choose as the other parent to your child.  You will have to communicate on some level with them for the rest of your life, and if “swagger” and Jordan’s are most important things in that person’s life, you should probably get different materials to make that bed before you lay in it.